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e-voice - 2005-07-28 18:11:06
Love you!
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golfwidow - 2005-07-28 18:20:17
I love you, Heidiwan.
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Klugarsh - 2005-07-28 18:36:21
I read the last entry, smiled at all the photos of you being so sweetly enthralled with your mojito, went to the comments section which had ONE entry at that point, and decided that it didn't need two talking about Depeche Mode fetishism, and toddled off.

Now this shit? What the fuck?

This entry killed me. I hadn't been aware of the comment deluge. Who the fuck is this mutant Betsy? Where do these people come from?

My mother had gastric bypass surgery a few years ago.... woo-hah... did that ever make her healthy in a hurry... Months of vomiting, hair loss, a prolapsed bladder, and an escaping uterus... Oh hell yes, never better.

I read through the forty-odd comments and started crying. The Fat Kid returned to the controls. I remembered being on a diet when I was three. I remembered my mother coming home from a trip to the store with my brother, telling me about a woman walking up behind her, introducing herself with the words, "Oh my god... How much do you weigh? you're a fucking cow. You'd better lose weight, you're going to ruin your child's life. You're disgusting."

I would like to state right now, as a total pig-man, that when I saw those new Dove billboards my first thought was, "Daaamnn... I want to spank her!" (did I not preface that with an admission of being a total pig-man?)

Mad love to you Heidi.

Oh, and you should go to my MySpace page, my boy Jake (Big Six) is doing a show with Kid, from Kid'n'Play down in your neck of the woods. I can't go, you should be my surrogate... meet some of my crew.
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Sandy - 2005-07-28 19:14:51
Sing it, sister!
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Smoog - 2005-07-28 19:17:40
If Betsy were in Canada, she would so get the Royal Canadian Air Farce Chicken Cannon treatment, reserved for the best in raging brainfarts. But it would only be because we care so much for you, Betsy. Really.
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Dana - 2005-07-28 20:09:41
What a wanker Betsy is. Sad, sad, sad. You , however, rock my Hello Kitty socks off! :) *smoochies*
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muffy - 2005-07-28 20:09:44
I love this entry.
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pink - 2005-07-28 20:11:06
It's because we care about Betsy that we think she should arrange for a personality transplant as soon as possible.
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abby - 2005-07-28 20:12:45
jesus. every single time i think you've delivered your best online bitchslap yet, you top it with another, even more brilliant one. you are truly fabulous. betsy, on the other hand, is a cuntsock.
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Carter - 2005-07-28 21:07:55
ahhh,, another great heidi entry .. Love ya girl
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madamepierce - 2005-07-28 21:29:25
heidiann - can i print out this entry and paper my walls with it? No? WELL TOO LATE! Anyway, notice that Betsy hasn't responded here yet? Here's my theory: It's because as soon as she read the entry, she went to the convenience store to get some donuts in a tube, ate them while crying and drooling, and then jacked off to a picture she'd made of her face photoshopped onto Gwen Stefani's body.
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madamepierce - 2005-07-28 21:30:30
Oh, and then she went to barf, and carve up her arm in the bathroom. Sorry, I left that part out and it's important.
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Betsy - 2005-07-28 22:13:11
I whole entire entry dedicated to me?Thanks,but it's not that serious,sweetiepie, get over it. It's your life,your decision. I was just expressing my opinion.Wanna be a happy fatty, go right ahead. Just don't blame your misery on "people like me". We're not the ones shoving junk down your throat. I'm done. Don't really have time to sit here and argue with you. Hope you have a happy life. PS: here's a link for ya. thought you might like it. http://www.fatchicksinpartyhats.com/
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Smoog - 2005-07-28 22:33:43
Twit-to English Translation: "Hey, don't blame *me* that you feel miserable because I treat you like shit, talk to you with contempt, insult you, and make you feel worthless. You *deserve* it, after all, by being fat / gay / Jewish / Islamic / disabled / [insert cultural / racial / religious / physical trait here]. People like you aren't *human*, after all, and don't do anything to act *normal*, so of *course* we heap shame upon you. That's not *our* fault. You're *different*. Different people should be put away somewhere so as not to bother the rest of us. If not, then we have the responsibility to punish you for being different - the offshoot being we get to feel smugly superior for no good reason."
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Amy - 2005-07-28 22:38:38
So well said, I am in awe. You are an amazing woman, Heidiann. :)
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katie - 2005-07-28 22:42:12
heidi makes me happy. in my pants. really. no one else gets me cheering throughout an entire entry. i love how she comes and starts pointless drama and then ends it by saying I DN'OT HAVE TIME 2 ARUGE W/ U HAHAHAHA UR FAT. HEAR IS ANUTHER NSULT 2 SHOW U HOW KEWL I R.
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Casey - 2005-07-28 23:01:39
You're an inspiration, dear. And your hair is hot as fucking hell.
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divacowgirl - 2005-07-28 23:11:44
You are an inspiration, but my hair is hotter, just kidding. Seriously the fact that she is still leaving you notes is kinda scary. Maybe she'll leave me one too. I do want to get together though. Email Me? Or I can email you and we'll exchange phone numbers.
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chelsea - 2005-07-28 23:17:20
betsy needs to die. I've probably commented in your diary a couple times, but this time I felt I needed to. This girl is completely insane. How someone can be so nasty to someone they don't even know and say that it was meant to be caring? Don't let this idiot make you feel down. People that cruel will get the karma they deserve. And Betsy, give your opinion, that's fine. But do you have to be a nasty bitch? Do you find pleasure or something in makeing people feel bad about themselves? Just because you hate yourself doesn't mean you have to be such a bitch. Heidi, you're great!
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Matt - 2005-07-28 23:26:28
Is it possible this is your ex's current girlfriend or something? This sounds way too mean spirited to be some random reader...
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trisha - 2005-07-28 23:54:42
You are fabulous!
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naomi - 2005-07-29 00:14:23
heidiann you are one fucking phenominal woman!!! you have such class and you rock the world! your talent at writing, your passion, all of that is so totally cool. I wish a tenth of your ability to write. i'm really glad you're you and that i found your blog to read. you inspire me. you're my hero.
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Shelb - 2005-07-29 00:27:28
Did she [Betsy] HAVE to comment again? Jesus Christ! The fact that she thinks one has to "shove" food down their throat or even over-eat to maintain or gain weight is enough to prove her stupidity. You've got a ton of people behind you, a very well-spoken entry and a new day tomorrow.. Move on, love.. she's not worth it.
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Shelb - 2005-07-29 00:27:52
:D
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hothead - 2005-07-29 01:00:14
"I’m perfect and flawed and superior and inferior and everything and nothing. I’m human." that has taken me YEARS of therapy to get! damn, you are FIERCE. if nothing else, i hope this whole thing has shown you for real just how loved you are. take it and run, sweetheart, and put your mix cd in anytime you need a reminder. ps: hey betsy, i think you're done here. but if you ever need a recharge, come see hothead. i'm thin enough, because i am a recovering anorexic because of an entire culture perpetrated by assholes like you. i'm also a flaming bitch queer with a tranny boyfriend. we're all different, sweetheart, but we ALL have each other's backs. NEVER forget that. love.
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Jess - 2005-07-29 01:54:43
Oh. My. God. A friend of mine just linked me to this entry, knowing that as a fellow fat chick, I'd appreciate & agree with what you had to say. And ya know what? I've never even read anything from you but I already absolutely adore you. I'm definitely going to be coming back.
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Tia - 2005-07-29 02:06:28
This is such an awesome entry to stumble upon. Miss Heidi, I think we would be great friends. You kick major ass.
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tali - 2005-07-29 02:17:27
It's a shame that Betsy just doesn't get it. She's a bitch. I suggest you ignore her and move on. She doesn't deserve all the energy.
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vintagegurl - 2005-07-29 03:32:51
you know how you get all excited when something you've been waiting for is in your mail? that's how giddy happy I get when I see you've updtated. I <3 U
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abby - 2005-07-29 08:21:16
it's all been said here by the readers who really do matter. i had to ask myself -- what exactly is betsy running in her own head that made her lash out? what's really going on? hurt people hurt people. perhaps it upsets betsy that heidi, despite not being a mary-kate or a lindsay lohan, is loved and revered and worshipped, while she, betsy, is thin, yet apparently repulses people with her personality. and that isn't how it's supposed to work, right? oh well. tough luck, betsy, and remember, what you put out there comes back and slaps you in the face even harder.
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Ursula - 2005-07-29 09:23:29
Viva la fat chicks who let people merge on to the freeway! Hopefully someday DearestBetsyBitch will learn that the true value of a person is in how they treat others well.
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verucaamish - 2005-07-29 09:50:18
Dear Betsy, Spewing your fat hatred doesn't make you any skinnier, smarter, or nicer.
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Jodi - 2005-07-29 10:14:46
Heidi Ann is THE SHIT!!!!!! Goddess bless you and I hope you have an awesome weekend!
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bathtubmary - 2005-07-29 10:27:51
you do give the best, sharpest,calmest most mature and even-handed smackdowns on the face of the planet. it just skewers me that you always have to do it in your own defense. why are people so evil? and how is it that they can't see exactly why they are evil? i love you heidi, and i know i have to come 'round and say it more, not just when we in your fan club need to circle our wagons around the haters. xoxoxoxo, d
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Vonni - 2005-07-29 10:38:40
You go girl!
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MargyMae - 2005-07-29 10:48:24
Obviously it's been said better by everyone else, but you're the shit.
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razor-vixen - 2005-07-29 12:27:49
You are awesome. What upsets me the most is that guy's article. I haven't seen those billboards, but I've seen some others from the new Dove campaign. Also the TV commercials (esp. the one with the pregnant woman & three friends). These women aren't "chunky" in the least! I guess if you're not 5'10 and a size 4, you're chunky now.
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mel - 2005-07-29 12:34:55
i love you!! and betsy? what a fucking joke. clearly has major issues with herself and that's why she feels the need to try and make someone else feel like shit. go get some help betsy, because you are one screwed up individual.
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Savannah - 2005-07-29 13:55:24
I'm beginning to believe, due to her distinct lack of literacy that our dear 'Betsy' is no doubt some TROLL. Heidi, you're so awesome. Forget about this stupid bint and continue rocking on!
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Terri - 2005-07-29 15:13:23
YEAH...WHAT THEY ALL SAID!!I love your hair and your wit and your honesty and your phrasing and how clearly you write your feelings and how VULNERABLE you allow yourself to be - exposed in print. You are a person, I think, we would all like to know in real life and definitely have as a friend. Keep on tellin' it like it is...
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Pandi - 2005-07-29 15:19:00
Heidi, you got that right. Betsy is a miserable little slice of humanity, because basically, she hates herself. She puts other people down to make herself feel better. Better that you aren't her, never were her, will never be her. Betsy, you come talk to me, dear. See, I'm your worst nightmare. Once upon a time I was like you. We didn't have diaries back then, but I used to put people down to make myself feel better. And I was (and am now) nicely built, not bad-looking, not hurting for dates. Attractive, to be sure, but because I didn't like mySELF, I was like you. And it sucked. Oh, how mightily it sucks to be you. So if I were you, I'd fix myself first, before I worry about "fixing" other people.
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Sheila - 2005-07-29 16:10:50
HEIDI!!!! You're the best! Your response to that beeotch Betsy was so beautifully sophisticated. She really is sad. I hope she falls and knocks out all her teeth! You ARE better than her. Everyone here loves you, warts and all. YOU GO GIRL!!!! :)
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Impressed - 2005-07-29 16:35:01
Holy crap, that was a great post back at that Betsy chick. You rock, woman. To me, the fact that she spelled people "ppl" would've been enough to smack her. ugh. The trolls that lurk....
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geri - 2005-07-29 17:35:54
Heidi, you're awesome. xoxo.
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Karen - 2005-07-29 21:08:58
Brilliant! Bravo! Big hugs!
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Natalie - 2005-07-29 23:07:53
Heidi, there are not enough adjectives to describe how incredible you are.
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Kat - 2005-07-30 00:39:07
Came here via Hothead, and all I can say is wow. Why is it that people think that they can just look at someone and suddenly know what is right for them. She doesn't know you (I don't know you) and she certainly doesn't have the right to judge you like that or to be that rude. I have been judged, I have been called fat, a bad Mom, dirty and even ugly. All of this to my face. People need to learn how to keep their mouths shut.
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Dorable - 2005-07-30 05:25:50
"Nothing wrong with that." Whoa, baby. Does that Betsy person honestly believe her emails were reasonable and helpful? That's misguided to the point of being psychotic. Somebody lock her up before she starts cutting people's heads off and stuffing mashed potato down their necks while wearing a chastity belt and singing the Stars and Stripes. She probably thinks that's a reasonable and helpful thing to do, too. No, seriously. Lock her up. Or at least give her some mental treatment. A developmental psychologist could tell you that people are supposed to know better than behave like this AT AGE THREE.
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moo - 2005-07-30 09:06:27
*applauds wildly* you're perfect just how you are... *blows kisses* I hope this hasn't upset you or dented your confidence. If it helps at all.. I think you're GREAT! xxx
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Aida - 2005-07-30 10:40:35
I know, you've got 9 millions comments, but Imma leave one anyway. Can I please PLEASE have this cunt's address or something so I can kick the ever-hating-retard shit out of her? Some people are such a waste of human space. You rock on, girl, I think you're gorgeous!!
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Aida - 2005-07-30 10:41:46
OMG & one more thing, do you know how many times I've wished I lived near you so I could seek you out & go out for a drink? Does that help any? I bet you have tons of people who read on here who wish they were close enough to pary with ya. Hang in there
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Emma - 2005-07-30 13:52:50
That's the problem with the world, people seem to think the lives of other people are their own business, just because they post their thoughts and feelings for the public to see. They assume that because they can read about that person, they have the right to judge and instruct. In actual fact, the complex beings that are us humans cannot ever be fully reflected in a few pages of words. xxx
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grrl-blog - 2005-07-30 19:03:28
what an absolute cunt. and what a stunning retort...i love it when people read 2 seconds of someone's diary and then think they've summed you up and can spew their venomous bullshit at you and call it "advice" or "concern." too bad your brilliant, poignent address will probably be lost on her small-town rich-pretty-girl 12-year-old emotional maturation, primordial intellect, and microscopic worldview.
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Sa - 2005-07-30 23:15:20
That girl has got no reason to be taking up space on my planet! None!
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Julia - 2005-07-31 17:47:56
Have you ever considered a side career as a freelance writer? Because you are AMAZING with words!!!! I<3U Heidi!
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Janelle - 2005-07-31 22:13:44
Go Heidi!!!!Way to stand up for yourself!I mean, no one's perfect, and everyone has their own image, the own ideas and their own lives. If you are open enought to put your life online, then go you. If Betsy felt the need to convey her "advice" to you, then yes, she should have done it politely, and kindly instead of rudely and meanly. For nearly every mean thing you wish to say, i believe that there is at least one other way of saying it nicely =) I think Betsy needs to learn that, and to watch her mouth a bit. But go you Heidi, rock on!!^-^
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Maile - 2005-07-31 22:28:37
you go, heidi! i stopped letting stupid bitches like that bother my fat ass a long time ago. take solace in the fact that you are fucking beautiful and that beauty is reinforced by all the people that love and support you.
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it's a star - 2005-08-01 00:00:49
you go girl. -- that's really all i have to say. anorexics are crazy, and women with flesh are awesome.
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madamepierce - 2005-08-01 00:20:02
here is an announcement: HEIDIANN IS TOTALLY SEXABLE!!!! Also: when are you coming to get your laptop?
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Kaire - 2005-08-01 08:55:44
Poor Betsy, she thinks because you wrote a entry based on her stupidity that she's a big deal and important. Stupid little twit, doesn't she know that it isn't about her ... it's about the raw bitter disgust that exists for people like her. It's a shame that innocent children die and "people" like her get to live.
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Tiffany Olvera - 2005-08-01 13:44:19
I have been reading you for a long time now and you are always saying that you are not confident or out going. I think that this entry shows how wonderful, confident and out going that you are. I am also overwieght and my divorce from a man that now I see never really loved me was final only a few months ago. You give me confidence that I can go on with my life and find someone that will love me and love ALL of me.
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MagpieFaerie - 2005-08-02 13:02:36
Wow! I clicked on the link in Hothead's diary (because I do so love clicking links for some reason) and I think I've found a new personal hero. I loved this entry. And Betsy can go f**k herself. Well done!
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Carrie - 2005-08-02 13:51:04
Wow, how did I miss all that? Much support here honey! You already know all the rest. Mwah! C
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Shannon - 2005-08-03 22:28:31
Hiiiiyah! Take that, Betsies of the world!
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bethany - 2005-08-03 22:41:22
i'd just like to apologize on behalf of the human race that somehow people like "betsy" have survived this long. you would think some higher power/deity/god/whathaveyou would intervene and destroy the wastes of flesh like "betsy" and just start over. i would. and i'd make more people like heidiann. xoxo
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amanda hall - 2005-08-04 11:58:07
i love your response. i hate people who say hurtful things and then blame you for being hurt. i always equate it to someone hitting me in the arm and then blaming me for it brusing. i wouldnt except it on a physical level nor will i accept it on an emotional level. i have no problem with saying "you hurt me" and leave it at that. i have had too many people try to convince me i am "weak, or too sensitive, or to get over it" but these same excuses would never fly if we were in court because they broke my leg. it's crazy how people can justify their emotional attacks buy "just trying to help" they are a frustrating lot and should be avoided at all cost.
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aldahlia - 2005-08-05 22:09:44
What a bitch. Fuck a bunch of Betsy's.
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Claidi - 2005-08-06 16:37:48
Fuck Betsy, the fact she writes 'people' as 'ppl' is enough to show what a moron she is. You rock and don't let anyone tell you different. xx
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sodium_clorox - 2005-08-09 15:07:17
and Heidi does it again! i'm just sorry i didn't read this entry sooner. see, Betsy's words don't hold any water because: 1. you aren't gross. 2. you aren't gonna die at age 40 for any reason. (unless of course someone kills you, but that's beside the point. point is, you aren't killing yourself.) 3. you are so much better than her. 4. you are already aware of numbers 1-3. also, i would like to add... i really don't hope that you honestly think any of your pictures are "unflattering." because i've yet to see a bad one. and damn you for cropping them! and since i know Betsy is probably listening to this as she cuts herself to the sounds of Dashboard Confessional: Betsy, fuck you.
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sugarbabe - 2005-10-06 12:43:54
You ignore Betsey. she is well known for spamming peoples note books with her bile. she goes by the name of Liz Bateman.She is a nutjob to find out more visit here http://bitchfest.co.uk/phpBB2/viewforum.php?f=17
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